The reward for the child is it correct ?

The reward for the task has been accomplished, It is the force to complete another task.

It is necessary, encouragement and support children, in a way that makes them feel accomplished and have the energy to do anything is asked of them. The reward does not have to be something material,

It may be a smile that makes the child feel loved and special or a word of thanks and praise that makes him feel the value of the act he has done. and The child likes to have some extra Privileges, such as those enjoyed by his older siblings. They advise the parents to reward him when he behaves better like an extra half hour at the computer, visit a friend, delay bedtime for a quarter of an hour, or make a phone call to a friend. These additional privileges are a powerful motivator for good behavior and also teach him the concept of freedom and responsibility.

We must highlight some of the disadvantages of the rewards:

1.  Money is considered one of the worst rewards that parents offer to their children because it may turn into extortion by the child, and obedience will turn into a permanent barter, which increases his stubbornness and love for control.

2. Reward loses the child’s internal motivation, which is there naturally in the human instinct to accomplish tasks.

3. It will cause the child to be drawn to temptations, even if they are wrong.

4. The concept of reward makes our thinking limited so our brains stop free to wonder and bewilderment, we stop thinking deeply and seeing possibilities, focusing our thinking on what we are going to get.

We must always differentiate between the method of reward and encouragement and avoid providing undisciplined reward because its has negative effects on the child, his family and society as well.